I’ve been quietly involved in online social networks for a while. I never did any of the usenets, but I was on several listserves back in the day. (Remember listserves? My spellchecker doesn’t.) About seven years ago I joined a social site anonymously and maintained an active blog for years. I still post once in a while, but my interest has waned because a lot of the people I met there no longer frequent the place. Like everyone I’m on Facebook. I run a Twitter account for Fidgety. I do virtual things like meeting new people, dating, commenting on political sites or sharing interests like knitting. On some sites I am myself, on others anonymous. Just like irl, I adopt different personae for different situations and I have no interest in integrating my lives–why should my friends, students or employers read my comments on Wonkette or Jezebel or find out what kinda guy I want to date? Why should people I want to date be able to immediately research me? No reason.
People who’ve been bitten by the internet a la “Imagine my horror when my boss found out about my porn star past/my Nazi ravings cost me political office” etc. had maybe an overwhelming need to be themselves at the cost of discretion. Or maybe they were uninformed, or didn’t think it through.
I’ve drawn lines in the sand. I got squicked out when I searched for a sweater dress on Google and then saw ads for sweater dresses every time I performed a web search. I was totally bothered when I went on a news aggregating site after logging out from Facebook and was confronted with the faces of my FB friends who “liked” or commented on an article. Hey, Facebook, I’m not on you. Stop following me! I’ll tell my friends if I liked an article. I’ll do my own sweater dress searching, thanks anyway Google! (I found a really nice pattern on ravelry and made one. You can see it on my ravelry account which, I don’t care, I used my real name.)
I know, I know, the web business model of Google/FB/everyone else. You want insta-searches and 500 FB friends? Those servers farms aren’t free.
But who I am is none of their business. Unlike the Spotified, Foursquared, app-enabled friends of mine, I don’t want to be tracked unless I want to be tracked. So I installed ghostery, which I’ve written about before. And I blocked all the tags, bugs, pixels and beacons that pop up on every site I visit. There are a lot of them.
In the run-up to Facebook’s IPO there was some discussion about how FB could possibly be worth the billions of dollars they’re getting. The consensus is, if the investors want to turn a profit, FB will have to find out more about us and create significant ways to make money off our personal information. Figure out how to wrench our brains and pockets open more easily.
Today I was idly reading a story on salon about…oh well it was just a dumb story; read it yourself. I thought I’d drop a snarky comment in. But no, here is the new thing on salon. You can’t post a comment if you’ve blocked linking to Facebook.
“That’s annoying,” I thought.
Then I thought, “Cripes whatever happened to free speech?”
“Nah,” I thought, “That’s overstating it a bit. Salon and FB aren’t the government. They’re private entities. They can limit, link, repost, broadcast, censor your speech however they want. There’s no constitutional right to make an anonymous snarky internet comment unlinked to FB.”
“Except,” I thought, “What if FB decides to change terms of service? And if a government or a scary corporation gained access to all the information they have on me? Oh, that kind of thing wouldn’t happen, would it? “